a blog of experiences of places and faces I've been, past and present

29 November 2012

Kilijan is all grown up now...

and if you believe that I have some great ocean front property for you in Redridge.

She IS level 90!

Now to sort out the mass of dailies (Klaxxi, Tillers, Anglers, and I'm sure I'm missing a dozen or more who are now wanting me to come and help and from whom I can get some awesome loots in return) and figure out who to level next.

I want to level my healer and set myself to the challenge of learning a whole new really hard thing to do. Whatever other people say, Monk heals are twitchy. I've watched the reactions to them in dungeons and seen how very stat and gear prone they are in upper levels. This will be as big of a challenge as my Fury warrior and my Affliction 'lock. WOOT

Allumette seems next logical, however because I have always used her as my main character and because the guild is hell-bent on Darkmoon Cards. By hell-bent I mean farming herbs on a full 24 hour rotation and milling inks.

No on has ever listened to me or "cared" that I feel like this is gambling and that I have never been overly interested in it as a hobby. I'd rather farm the herbs I need for flasks and potions and leave the trinket farming to those with the money to spare for it. I make my money from the things I make milling and making stuff. Every guild I've ever been in did this on the new expansion. Well, every guild after Decadence, Inc. and including Decadence once they found out about raiding in any serious way.

At least Okeret isn't amassing gold. He's not farming it to farm people. He's trying to get us all trinks for raiding. And in that, I will support him and farm and make the damned cards. I just refuse to "wish for a certain card" while I'm making them anymore. That's what the fortune cookies are for... LOL

Let me say here sarcastically and ACIDICALLY Thank you, Blizzard. Just when I'm suffering a missing of Trion that is pulling my mind back and away from my drive to have 5 level 90 toons in your game. I cannot express to you my absolute admiration for your ability to fuck it up royally just a few weeks after each new expansion so that we can all tell who you're really making the game for. You're the assholes we all love to hate and boy are you fucking good at it. Hats off to you, while we bend over and moon your moronic asses.

That's all I have of that for now. I'm still too angry to think. I might eventually detail out for you the reduced herb spawns, the vastly more expensive inscriptions and potions and flasks and elixirs as a result. The constant farming that has become the point of the game. It is no longer about playing or dungeons or having fun. The end-game in WoW is only the farm... and part of me fears that this is in direct relationship to the crying 80's and 85's from the last two expansions that listed Rift as a way to balance the game. Do you not realize those fuckers played EQ? I don't want a 30 part 4 profession requirement for building my own motherfucking furniture in WoW. That's what EQ is for.

The neverending rep grind begins for me in earnest... the constant contact with assholes and asshats from other servers in every area where I can grind for herbs and mines and fish and anything else I need until there are no nodes active in any zone because there were fewer of them after the last patch. Leaving the Spirit of Harmony soul bound after making it just a little harder to get anything else so that the prices in the AH that already is a laughable place to be assraped by the other players with a mind to do so is filled with thieves and thugs and gold farmers.

yeah. I sit on the edge of being hateful right now and I am struggling very valiantly against it. you all know what comes next... 6 months in Rift and Skyrim while I cool off... demotion in the guild... missing friends and a constant sense of guilt because I SHOULD be loving something I'm fucking angry at. yeah. I'm resisting that.

Thank you, Penny Arcade for the reminder that we are all cyclical and that WoW is always a rich source of humor and frustration. Here is a post with all of their WoW related comics EVER.

Yeah... maybe more than on the edge or verge of it, huh? LOL

To clarify... EQ is an awesome game that fundamentally changed the way that gaming works for lots of people and in lots of designer's minds as they made their own games.

Rift is not EQ and is very different from EQ. Rift is also not WoW and is very different from WoW. There are some obvious similarities between Rift and EQ and some very clear differences. The grind in professions mirrors that of some of the harder games and it makes my headache just thinking how many things Julienne skinned and didn't get a single level out of. In a whole day playing I got 2 bubbles of experience. The game is about the game and not the progression and Trion took the "make 'em work for it" method of leveling and progression. It hurts and will be godsdamned worth it when I get there... in a year or two.

And WoW is no longer WoW in the very sense of the word.... ask for something to be made available to your other characters and you want the game dummied down... complain and you're in the mass of people doing the same and don't say anything and you're like the other 90% of the sheep-like masses who are playing the game and for whom the real inconveniences are being made in the first place. The gift of Pandaria with "Slow down!" and "There is no hurry." From all the pandas you'll meet is in the message that they mean it. You have rapid leveling progression and you'll get into raids pretty fast with all the stuff available to you and for the best things you're gonna have to work, and work hard and work long because we're making sure that you get SLOWED THE FUCK DOWN.

Hi ho... hi ho... its off to farm I go... there's quests to do and tons to sell... hi ho... hi ho... hi ho... hi ho...

27 November 2012

oh what a tangled web we weave...

so tired.

Kilijan is 10 bubbles from 90.

The PLAN as it stands right now is to gear her and start the process of leveling up Sigvorth next.

Then I will have a healer and a ranged caster.

And then I can look back at the warriors and decide what I want to do with them. I can also take a look at leveling Holle, a new little frost mage.

According to noxxic.com I have accidentally chosen the highest DPS classes except for my monks.

Almost in order.

Frost Mage (Holle... just born and not even leveled out of the starting grounds yet)
Affliction Warlock (Kilijan... almost 90 and almost geared for heroics already)
Fury Warrior (Allumette... 87.95 and just finally getting back on track for leveling)
Arcane Mage
Fire Mage

lol

So why do I feel beat up?  Regardless of how many ways I warn against it, no matter how many examples I give and no matter what I try to explain... the GM of Renaissance has his own way of things and anything that does not agree is wrong. Period. There is no second thought given, no consideration and no quarter.

Renaissance is a social leveling guild. We have so many people who do not ever fully explore their class/spec combinations and instead grind up towards the top and then wander about doing the things that interest them. In a social leveling guild this is beautiful. Perfect. This is how it should be.

A number of the hardcore guys have come back to the guild after a year or two away. They are flying towards the top through the content that the other half of the guild loves and are preparing for raiding. Any observation of the danger of forming a tight knit little group of favorites is ignored. They're doing what they want to do and that's what you're supposed to do in a game.

And I am continuing to resist the urge. Within reason, of course. I AM leveling the warlock and I AM planning on gearing her and spec'ing her for raiding.

So Jake asks me why I'm not going to raid lead and I say that I don't think it would be appropriate. I encouraged him when he said that he has already put his name in for raid leader and I support him and will continue to support him. He's "raid led" for a few of our lesser trained guildies already in the old expansion.

I wont because there have been 100 examples of times when I have tried to have a conversation with our GM and he has shut me down, ignored me, refused to understand me and otherwise has made it clear that he is in that 75% of the world who just does not bother to listen before they make a decision. He is filtering for words that suit his point of view and then leaping head first forward with it.

Why do I stay? I love him. He's a dork and a wonderful guy. He's also a self-centered prick. "How can you say that about someone who gives so much of his time to the guild and to the other players?" Easily. WHY is he doing it? As sad as it sounds, I admire him. I disagree with him sometimes to the point of blind rage, and still... I'm the one who backs down. I think he's wrong as often as he's right and still, he has his way. He is not hurtful, he is not vengeful (well... I could give an example to the contrary and I wont because I really do like him) and he is absolutely dedicated to the success of our guild and the people in it, even if they are NOT just like him.

And because of the many times that he has said "Calm down, you're freaking out, woman," when I was not even the least bit worked up, or "You get all worked up about silly things, girl," when I was asking for help and had to explain to three or four different people what I needed before I found one who would understand I will not be raid leading. People believe what they hear... not what they can prove for themselves.

Sincerely, and again... I point out that I like the bastard... on the down side of having a leader who is sort of... well... his own sort of guy... I'm entirely sure he would argue with me about this and then his actions would speak more loudly than words... I don't believe he would be able to raid under my leadership because he believes what he is saying and perceives me (and possibly most women) as weaker and sentimental and would prefer be in charge himself.

I might be wrong. I'd still rather not be in charge. I'll decide as we go whether even my input has any weight. I don't believe it ultimately does.

I'm saying something they don't want to hear.

Some players in social leveling guilds can learn and become exceptional raiders in that supportive and nurturing environment. Belegorad and Julienne did it. In fact, the first tolling of the death bells for Decadence, Inc. was the introduction of a bunch of folks who wanted to raid and were learning from within the guild to a group of guys who had just landed on the server and were building a raiding guild. They gutted the guild on the way out and created a lot of hard feelings within the guild.

Other players will never be good raiders. They don't have the dedication to a small sector of the game to pull it off. It is all numbers. There can be only one on top. The constant competition and ranking and dedication to being better than everyone else in the group is just something they will never learn or master.

I'm not sure that's a bad thing. It has taken me a year to stop looking at my gear every time I get a new piece and making sure it's absolutely the best in slot for my spec and rotation etc... And I still do it. In Rift, in WoW... even playing single player games I'm constantly watching my DPS and making sure that I'm as efficient and effective as possible.

I miss the days when I was so new and so naive that I could race up the docks at Darkshore and attack a horde player using our boats to get to Teldrassil and actually expect a result. (For the record, there was one. My level 15 warrior was dead without being hit... he had mage armor or some other magical armor effect up and Julienne died to the damage that it did in a single shot.)  I miss being such a newb to the way that things are supposed to be on a PvP server that I got warrior pvp training by sitting side by side on a hill overlooking live duels between the two factions and watching them talk before Blizzard took away the cheat we were using to communicate. I miss the pie eyed girl who leveled side by side with a tauren hunter in the Arathi Highlands because our different quests sent us after creatures that were side by side in the terrain. We worked hard not to use AoE and he kept his pet on passive and we played having a very good time for over an hour before he was murdered by an Alliance player who was disgusted by our little transgressions. A tauren warrior once harassed an Alliance base and then stripped naked and gave me lessons in PvP between times when he would put his armor back on and kill all the guards again. He didn't even try to kill me. He was more interested in teaching me how to kill him because he loves warriors and wants them all to be superior.

Those experiences were possible because I didn't know there were more than my sort of player in the game. I thought we were all just having an awesome time being blown away by all the amazing things to do and see and experience in the game. I wasn't aware that the PvP heads hated the Raiders and I didn't know that some guilds would kick you out for not being absolutely the best fury warrior in the game. I had no idea that your only value in the game is to be part of an elite little group that has set themselves apart and against the other little elite groups in a silent and obvious competition. I was in a loving and supportive and educational family of people who were enjoying my enjoyment and exploration of the game they loved.

And raiding kicked that in the ass and sent it to the corner for being bad.

Checking my rankings in the guild to be sure I might be high enough to get the upgrade on the loots that drops and being very aware before I rolled that I would never get it because I just wasn't showing the right output for my potential and my points showed it. Logging into a guild web site to see if I made the 10 or 25 man raid this week, not because I wanted to know what we were doing as a group or see the fun and creative stuff my guildies posted. Being so aware of my gear and DPS that recount is open on my screen even when I'm questing and feeling my frustration rise when I cannot get my DPS to come up to what I'm expecting it should be.

I have finally gotten to a place where I can, with difficulty, just equip a piece of gear and NOT check whether it increased my overall DPS. I turned off my experience bars and just played for the sake of playing because I was tired of feeling like I was in a race to some almost unobtainable goal at the top. I want to be the best that I can be, and that is different from the best that someone else can be.

And now I'm going to gear Kilijan and I know without checking that she only needs 4 points of item level to be able to queue for heroic dungeons and that she still needs 5,000 more spell power and a real lot more spell hit to be even bottom 5 of 10 competitive in the DPS meters against players like Okeret and Boreas and Anpu. I know this because I'm competitive by nature, not because I particularly care whether I'm beating them.

I'm totally OK to let them be in charge and resist being the leader because some part of me admires the totally social players in our guild who are happy in their quest greens exploring a continent that I have not even seen 1/2 of at 89.5 and well on my way to 90. I'll get me ready, and I'll have what I need and my investment will be about having fun and when it isn't fun I'll quit doing what isn't fun. I love and enjoy the people in our guild who are part of the family and who are just playing to enjoy what it is that they get from the game. I will always have them to hang out with and there is always /LFR to piss me off and drive me nuts and there will always be /Trade where I can LFM or 510 Aflic Warlock LFG.

Julienne is only 50.25 in Rift... and I'd like to see some more. In Rift I can be that casual social player who is just trying to keep her character alive and still see 100% of every map before she moves on.

peace... and if not peaceful then remember... the sha rises where there is strong emotion without balance. know what you're fighting for before you rise to the challenge or you just might break the balance and pay the consequences.